Jennifer Lopez Felt Like ‘Dying Animal’ After Heartbreaks
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Jennifer Lopez says she used to fall in love too quickly and then felt like a “dying animal” when the relationship ended.
After two divorces and several unsuccessful high-profile relationships with stars including P. Diddy and Ben Affleck, Jennifer is now happily married to singer Marc Anthony. The beauty admits she has been heartbroken many times, but couldn’t stop herself falling for men she knew were wrong for her.
She struggled to cope when relationships ended and often vowed never to date again.
“I always made the same mistake: I threw myself passionately into a new relationship because I believed in love, as I still do, despite all the disappointments, pain and depression,” Jennifer told the German edition of OK! magazine.
“There were moments I wished I didn’t have a heart, because it hurt so much. When a love ended, a love I had believed in so hard, I wished I could crawl away like a dying animal.”
Jennifer has now settled down with Marc and the couple have two-year-old twins Max and Emme together. The 41-year-old star says she has learnt a great deal from her tumultuous love life and this has helped her relationship with Marc.
Her previous heartache has made her more realistic about love and shown her you have to work hard to be happy with someone.
“I have learnt not to give up,” she explained. “Not to run away being resigned after every contention. In my opinion there is no couple made for each other, two people are just too different.
“To love means to adjust and to accept that my partner is not the ideal man because he doesn't exist just as his ideal woman doesn’t.”
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About 1998, Dayanara went to a fund raiser for charity in San Juan. She asked to meet Marc Anthony, and sat at his table. When he became flirtatious, Dayanara reportedly reciprocated and ignored the woman that Marc was dating, also in attendance. Eventually Jennifer (Lopez) got up and left the table. If anyone "stole" Marc, it wasn't Jennifer.
It doesn't made sense for Dayanara to blame their divorce on Jen, not after a Miami waitress had sued Marc for Paternity (disproved). .And there were other women seen accompanying Marc while he toured.( Not Jen)..In October 2003, Marc and Dayanara split for good, but Jennifer wasn't with Marc; she was still with Ben ( in Ga?.) - and trying to re-schedule the wedding they were supposed to have in September.
WHen Dayannara went to the media to tell her story. She came across as protective, but she did nothing to intervene when the talk show host brought her little kids from backstage to show them *** to the audience and cameras. The older boy peered into the audience and called for his father. I realize Daya was upset (she didn't exactly fight back her tears) - but I thought that was manipulative..
After her criticism of Jennifer, does it surprise anyone that Dayanara dates married men? In 2005, there was singer Frankie J., who was separated (Her excuse was she " didn't know" - But she could have asked). Later in 2005 through 2006, Dayanara also dated actor Terrence Howard, who was getting a divorce, and had 3 school-age children at the time. He was still technically "married" until 2008. Things are not always as they seem.
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